So for dinner, I decided to make spaghetti and plaintain for the family.
Me: "Kids, who wants spaghetti for dinner?"
All Kids: "Meeeeeeeee!!!!!!"
Me: "Would you like plaintain on the side?"
G2: "Yes, but a little"
G3: "Yes mummy"
G1: "Mummy, remember the spaghetti you made last week? (I made jollof spaghetti). Can you not make this one like that one?"
Me: "Why? I thought you girls really loved that one. Thats exactly what I want to make today"
G1: "Mummy, please no. Can we have plain spaghetti with stew or minced meat or meat balls?"
Me: "Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyy. I've got turkey"
G1: "And mummy, you know the plaintain, can I have it diced not sliced?"
Me: "Don't push your luck G1! Is this a restaurant?"
xoxo
Saturday, 24 October 2015
Naija Diaries: Helping Hands Housemaid Style
Moving to Nigeria comes with its benefits. You surround yourself with family and loved ones who are always on hand to assist. It is also quite easy to get some helping hands to help with your daily house chores, errands and light babysitting. Housemaid Style.
HOWEVER!
Although I was really looking forward to getting someone to help out, I am not yet comfortable with inviting a complete stranger into my home to work. I find it hard trusting strangers (and others) with my children. I don't think I am alone on this one, as I have met quite a few mothers that share this same view. They all say, it is only God that can truly protect our children for us. That is true. I also share the opinion that God loves us so much that he gave us these children to be their personsal caretakers and guardians. That means, come rain or shine, our korokoro eyes have to be on them. As much as possible.
My children are my life. I have all girls. I cannot afford to be careless with them. Not for a second. As for the cleaning, we all know the more kids you have, the more likely your house will look like a tip if you are not on top of your cleaning. I have sometimes felt desperate for a cleaner. Especially as a working mum. However, I never did. You can call it pride. How could another woman like me, come into my home and clean up where I live. Once a week. Wouldn't that be a waste of my money? Where will she start from? Who knows the corners of my house better than me? By the time I finish explaining what is what and where everything goes, wouldn't that hour be more productive if I just did it myself. Between my husband and I, we do all the house chores, all the cooking, market/supermarket errands, school runs, looking after the kids and everything else in between. Here is why...
1. The Orekoya boys scared the life out of me. If you remember the kidnapping of the three Orekoya boys earlier this year, you will understand exactly where I am coming from. I believe the whole of Lagos was on standstill during those horrifying few weeks. Thank God for the safe return of all boys. But it goes to show that not everyone who smiles and talks nicely to you is actually nice. The system in Nigeria is a little less secure, that is why, despite finding the nanny on a reputable website, it was easy for the kidnapper to disappear into thin air.
2. Who else remembers the video that was put out I think December last year where a Ugandan nanny was filmed brutally beating a baby. My tummy churned just watching it. Thinking about it makes me sick. I can't recount what that evil thing did, but it was the worst child abuse video I have ever seen.
3. Some parents who look for a housemaid, go to their villages, get a young girl and use them to work. From the moment they wake up, till they go to bed, they are on their feet working. I have a problem with little kids working. As long as a child is between the ages of 4-22, that child should be at school. I will only get someone when I want to put them through school and not use and abuse them. If I am not ready to be of help to that child's educational development, then I would rather not have them with me. I wouldn't want any child to live with me and feel like a slave in my home.
4. As I have all girls, it is my duty to fiercely protect their innocence. I feel totally uncomfortable leaving my children with strangers/family members/friends, male or female. I trust no one. I'll leave it at that.
May God Almighty protect all our children.
xoxo
HOWEVER!
Although I was really looking forward to getting someone to help out, I am not yet comfortable with inviting a complete stranger into my home to work. I find it hard trusting strangers (and others) with my children. I don't think I am alone on this one, as I have met quite a few mothers that share this same view. They all say, it is only God that can truly protect our children for us. That is true. I also share the opinion that God loves us so much that he gave us these children to be their personsal caretakers and guardians. That means, come rain or shine, our korokoro eyes have to be on them. As much as possible.
My children are my life. I have all girls. I cannot afford to be careless with them. Not for a second. As for the cleaning, we all know the more kids you have, the more likely your house will look like a tip if you are not on top of your cleaning. I have sometimes felt desperate for a cleaner. Especially as a working mum. However, I never did. You can call it pride. How could another woman like me, come into my home and clean up where I live. Once a week. Wouldn't that be a waste of my money? Where will she start from? Who knows the corners of my house better than me? By the time I finish explaining what is what and where everything goes, wouldn't that hour be more productive if I just did it myself. Between my husband and I, we do all the house chores, all the cooking, market/supermarket errands, school runs, looking after the kids and everything else in between. Here is why...
1. The Orekoya boys scared the life out of me. If you remember the kidnapping of the three Orekoya boys earlier this year, you will understand exactly where I am coming from. I believe the whole of Lagos was on standstill during those horrifying few weeks. Thank God for the safe return of all boys. But it goes to show that not everyone who smiles and talks nicely to you is actually nice. The system in Nigeria is a little less secure, that is why, despite finding the nanny on a reputable website, it was easy for the kidnapper to disappear into thin air.
2. Who else remembers the video that was put out I think December last year where a Ugandan nanny was filmed brutally beating a baby. My tummy churned just watching it. Thinking about it makes me sick. I can't recount what that evil thing did, but it was the worst child abuse video I have ever seen.
3. Some parents who look for a housemaid, go to their villages, get a young girl and use them to work. From the moment they wake up, till they go to bed, they are on their feet working. I have a problem with little kids working. As long as a child is between the ages of 4-22, that child should be at school. I will only get someone when I want to put them through school and not use and abuse them. If I am not ready to be of help to that child's educational development, then I would rather not have them with me. I wouldn't want any child to live with me and feel like a slave in my home.
4. As I have all girls, it is my duty to fiercely protect their innocence. I feel totally uncomfortable leaving my children with strangers/family members/friends, male or female. I trust no one. I'll leave it at that.
May God Almighty protect all our children.
xoxo
Song Of The Week: Adele - Hello
Song of the week is back again with this emotional track from Adele...
Taken from her highly anticipated new album, 25, ladies and gentlemen, please say hello to "Hello".
I love this chick. Someone please pass the box of tissues.
xoxo
Taken from her highly anticipated new album, 25, ladies and gentlemen, please say hello to "Hello".
I love this chick. Someone please pass the box of tissues.
xoxo
Happiness Is A Choice
I once heard, "there is no rational reason to remain a pessimist in a world full of so many miracles". That is so true. Happiness is a choice. We have every control over what we let into our thoughts. When you focus on all the right things going on in our life, they will multiply. Choose happiness. Be happy. You are blessed.
Count Your Blessings
xoxo
Count Your Blessings
xoxo
Keep Doing You Boo!
After someone read one of my rants "Naija Diaries: Getting Your Hair Did. Lesson Well Learnt", they concluded my blog was too opinionated, not engaging and they just couldnt get the name Sigggos. Well, after licking my wounds, I realised that no matter what you do, you cannot please everyone all the time. I'm a blog virgin. Still very new at it, but I'm a fighter. Imma keep venting. I'm not going to be every body's cup of tea, but I will take it on board.
For anyone just like me, if anyone has tried to rain on your parade, all I can say is, keep doing you boo! As they say, "nothing do you, carry go".
Be Inspired!
xoxo
FYI, Sigggos probably sounds funny as a blog name, but trust me, you will get the hang of it. I couldn't think of any name more befitting for this personal blog than Sigggos. Sigggos is an acronym and it represents every member of my family. S - Sylvester (my husband), I - Ijeoma (yours truly), the 3G's are my beautiful daughters and O, is our family name. Family, is everything!
For anyone just like me, if anyone has tried to rain on your parade, all I can say is, keep doing you boo! As they say, "nothing do you, carry go".
Be Inspired!
xoxo
FYI, Sigggos probably sounds funny as a blog name, but trust me, you will get the hang of it. I couldn't think of any name more befitting for this personal blog than Sigggos. Sigggos is an acronym and it represents every member of my family. S - Sylvester (my husband), I - Ijeoma (yours truly), the 3G's are my beautiful daughters and O, is our family name. Family, is everything!
Meet Nigeria's 5 Youngest PhD Holders
Super proud of these great achievers!
In Nigeria, one of the very difficult situations students find themselves in is securing admission into tertiary institutions of learning.
Hence, the reason many resort to part time education as a means of catching up with their peers who were lucky enough to advance ahead of them.
But there are some people who have been exceptional in their endeavours and have managed to emerge as doctorate degree holders at the early stage of their lives.
5. Dr Olabisi Adeyemi (Age: 26)
This young intellectual earned her PhD in Botany from the University of Lagos. Though she had maintained a track record of academic success right from her secondary school, she acknowledged that having a PhD at her age, and the record of being the best graduating PhD student, did not come easy.
Born in Lagos Island local government of Lagos state, Dr. Adeyemi attended Girls’ Academy, L/Island where she was the best student in WAEC, with seven distinctions. She proceeded to University of Lagos and graduated with a first class degree in botany in 2006. She completed her PhD in record time in 2012.
4. Dr Opeyemi Shodipe (Age: 25)
This young Nigerian scholar received her bachelor’s degree at 19, from Babcock University. After the mandatory NYSC programme, she entered for a masters at University of Ibadan, graduating best in her department. She capped it with a well-deserved doctorate degree in information science from her alma mater, Babcock University when she was 25.
3. Dr Salihu Dasuki Nakande (Age: 25)
Born in October 1987, he is one of Nigeria’s youngest PhD holders, and arguably the youngest in northern Nigeria. He graduated with a first class degree in information technology from Eastern Mediterranean University (EMU), North Cyprus at 21. Dr. Salihu completed his Master’s degree at Brunel University, UK. He capped it with a PhD from the same university in 2012.
2. Dr Olaoluwa Hallowed Oluwadara (Age: 24)
Acclaimed as one of Africa’s youngest PhD holders, Olaoluwa is a spectacular Nigerian intellectual and scholar, because of his achievements. He entered university for a bachelor’s degree at 15. He earned two B.Sc degrees in mathematics and physics, from University of Bangui, Central African Republic (CAR), run simultaneously. He received his master’s degree from the same university.
He crowned it with a PhD in mathematics at the University of Lagos, Akoka, where he was the best graduating PhD student. Dr. Olaoluwa H. Oluwadara won University of Bangui’s all-time best student award from the department of mathematics, best BSc student award in physics, 2007 and best MSc awards in physics and mathematics respectively in 2008. He currently is a research fellow of the Mathematical Analysis and Optimisation Research Group.
1. Dr Nkemehule Karl Omebere-Iyari (Age: 22)
Here we have the leader of the pack. A colossus of intellectual ingenuity. Dr. Omebere-Iyari, received his PhD in chemical engineering from University of Nottingham, UK, in 2006, then aged 22. This amazing Nigerian, an old student of Kings College, Lagos had 8 As in his WAEC result at age 16.
He proceeded the same year to Oxbridge, Ikeja, where he wrote and passed his A-levels, scoring ‘A’ in physics, chemistry and mathematics. He entered the University of Nottingham immediately and graduated three years later with a first class degree in Chemical Engineering at 19 in 2003.
He was also the best graduating student in chemical engineering that year. With a university scholarship, Omebere-Iyari wasted no time, and pursued his PhD. He received a EU grant of €17,000 every year, and finished his doctorate in the record time of three years, specializing in multi-phase flow. Omebere-Iyari has distinguished himself as an exceptionally gifted Nigerian.
Since graduation, he has worked with many multinational corporations such as Shell, Halliburton, etc. He earned an MBA with distinction from INSEAD/Wharton, and is a member of many professional groups.
Article: www.naij.com
Be Inspired
xoxo
Preparing Your Body For Pregnancy After 30
I found this article particularly interesting because I am approaching 30 and not quite done procreating. Ewwww @ point 3 though.
Women were not designed to get pregnant or give birth after age 30. That’s why there are more risks involved with childbirth after age 30.
The reason women in their 40s have fertility issues is because the human body is not prepared for natural birth at that age.
But according to authors Christa Orecchio and Willow Buckley, women over 30 can give birth naturally by preparing their bodies before conception.
In their new book “How To Conceive Naturally: And Have a Healthy Pregnancy After 30,” Orecchio and Buckley say women over 30 can prepare their bodies for late age childbirth by eating right.
1. Preparing your body. Prepare your body for childbirth by practicing proper nutrition such as eliminating artificial and processed food. “Proper nutrition forms the core of this foundation and dramatically affects preconception health,” Orecchio and Buckley write. “Prenatal nutrition also determines the quality of the baby’s major organs and even her predisposition to certain diseases.”
2. Eliminate stress. If your life is stressful, your fetus will feel stressed out. “A good mindset is key,” says Orecchio. “You create your own culture, so communicate with your baby before and during pregnancy. Create enough time for yourself; have a morning or night routine that’s sacred to you.”
3. Add placenta to your diet. Orecchio, a certified nutritionist, suggests eating encapsulated placenta 3 months prior to conception to balance your postpartum hormones. “The Kardashians are doing it!” said Orecchio.
4. Be good to your gut. Orecchio recommends taking a multi-strain probiotic for 90 days before you conceive to prepare your gut to cultivate digestive enzymes and to help with digestion in your stomach and intestines. “Whatever imbalances you have, youth can overcome that. But not as you age. Then you have to do the work,” says Orecchio.
What thinketh you?
Be Inspired!
xoxo
Article retrieved from http://sandrarose.com/
Tuesday, 20 October 2015
Picture Of The Day
I'll be counting down to my 30th Birthday and sharing a few pictures along the way.
This is an oldie but a goodie. A colleague turned friend, Jan Scott, painted this self-portrait late 2006! I love this painting because at the time, I was unaware I was already with child and there I was, gazing into my future. That was really the beginning of my future. Till today, my children still hold the painting when they are going to bed and they miss me. I guess the size and likeness makes them feel closer to me.
So girls, this one is for you.
xoxo
Sunday, 18 October 2015
Know Your Worth
Dear daughters so beautiful, you are one of a kind
You are priceless, a rare gem
You are worth more than rubies. Dare to be different!
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so discerning, a thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but they will not come near you
Fear not! Understand that if God is FOR you, no one shall be against you
He that is in you is greater than he that is in the world.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so insightful, know who you are and make no apologies for it
Accept yourself for who you are
Flaws, imperfections and all
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so divine, you are worth more than you know
Exercise self-love. Love yourself enough to expect nothing but the best
Never belittle your being with the words of your mouth.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so powerful, your tongue is a weapon that should be used only to edify yourself and others
Your words should uplift and inspire
Your countenance, of peace and love
Your voice, so soothing and reassuring
Know your worth
Dear daughters so knowledgeable, do you know who you are?
You are the daughter of a King, the mothers of Kings and Queens.
Seek His fruits first before His gifts.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so faithful, don't stop believing
Keep dreaming big. Work on it and you will get there
Hope for something more. There is always a higher level!
Know your worth
I respect poetry too much to call this it. But my dear daughters, remember my words. Let them be imprinted on your memory. That way, I will always be with you.
Know Your Worth...even when no one else does.
Be Inspired
xoxo
You are priceless, a rare gem
You are worth more than rubies. Dare to be different!
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so discerning, a thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but they will not come near you
Fear not! Understand that if God is FOR you, no one shall be against you
He that is in you is greater than he that is in the world.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so insightful, know who you are and make no apologies for it
Accept yourself for who you are
Flaws, imperfections and all
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so divine, you are worth more than you know
Exercise self-love. Love yourself enough to expect nothing but the best
Never belittle your being with the words of your mouth.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so powerful, your tongue is a weapon that should be used only to edify yourself and others
Your words should uplift and inspire
Your countenance, of peace and love
Your voice, so soothing and reassuring
Know your worth
Dear daughters so knowledgeable, do you know who you are?
You are the daughter of a King, the mothers of Kings and Queens.
Seek His fruits first before His gifts.
Know your worth.
Dear daughters so faithful, don't stop believing
Keep dreaming big. Work on it and you will get there
Hope for something more. There is always a higher level!
Know your worth
I respect poetry too much to call this it. But my dear daughters, remember my words. Let them be imprinted on your memory. That way, I will always be with you.
Know Your Worth...even when no one else does.
Be Inspired
xoxo
Saturday, 17 October 2015
First Traditional Wedding Since Arriving In Nigeria
For those that know me, I am quite boring and anti-social. I don't attend weddings or functions unless I am invited. Well, if you invite my husband, you have automatically invited me and vice versa. Hehe. Here's a picture we took at his cousin's traditional wedding last weekend. It was also my first time wearing the aso-oke!
xoxo
xoxo
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