She broke it down into 10 bite size nuggets. To agree or not to agree?
1. There is no perfect time to impact a child. You must love, discipline, correct, teach, etc at every phase. It will never be convenient but it will be worth it.
2. Seeking acceptance is long gone not because I now have it but because it doesn't matter if you accept me. I finally accept me! Accept you with humility and work on becoming a better you!
3. Why do people ask others to follow them especially on instagram and get offended when the person they follow isn't following back? I don't get it lol It's like a leader demanding that his followers follow him or a husband 'demanding' submissiveness from his wife. I remember an uncle teaching once that the best and only way to lead and get the true respect of your followers is by being an example. I know for sure that followers would give all of themselves to the vision without being asked if leadership is embarked on by being an example. Now tell me what right Jesus would have had to require our followership if he didn't lay his life down and put us first before his 'need'. EVEN God in all his powerful splendor wouldn't tamper with our free will yet he can if he wants to but wouldn't because he doesn't need to. It is counter productive. So I sometimes wonder the audacity of people when they demand what they have not earned. Please don't demand that people follow you,let your work draw 'your' followership.
4. Giving advice when you are hurting (and have not forgiven) from the subject matter of your advice is not wise. You will NEVER give it soundly. You risk damaging the next generation by half truths. Please be silent. The best time is when you have healed and can fully appreciate perspective from the eagle's eye.
5. Never think of anyone as a nonentity. You insult the creator.
6. You are Not indispensable but you are indispensable. Having an exaggerated opinion about yourself is dangerous.
7. You can never know the heart of a woman until she reveals it to you..when she does don't underestimate the power she has given to you. What you think you have unraveled about her is what she permits you to see because the truth is that it takes God to unravel her. Even she doesn't know ALL of what she is capable of. And so when she is scorned (DEFINITION: to show that you think she is not worthy of respect or approval, to refuse or reject her that you do not think she is worthy of respect or approval) Hmmmm. She is dangerous. God will have to save her from herself and she must be willing to be saved. And when she is restored ...WOW! How even more (to herself first) appealing and powerful she is but sadly You may never see/know her heart again.
8. Everything is tested by time.
9. While I can not stand dullness I must understand the fact that everyone has a God given right to BE and not TO BE.
10. I admire accountability and integrity in a woman or a man. I admire confidence in same too. What I truly admire also is openness and honesty. So ask me the kind of men and women I prefer around me ?people who are confident in themselves and are not afraid to be open and honest, they position themselves to be accountable for wrongs/mistakes made because they are men and women of integrity and require the same from me as a sign of friendship and respect.
1. There is no perfect time to impact a child. You must love, discipline, correct, teach, etc at every phase. It will never be convenient but it will be worth it.
2. Seeking acceptance is long gone not because I now have it but because it doesn't matter if you accept me. I finally accept me! Accept you with humility and work on becoming a better you!
3. Why do people ask others to follow them especially on instagram and get offended when the person they follow isn't following back? I don't get it lol It's like a leader demanding that his followers follow him or a husband 'demanding' submissiveness from his wife. I remember an uncle teaching once that the best and only way to lead and get the true respect of your followers is by being an example. I know for sure that followers would give all of themselves to the vision without being asked if leadership is embarked on by being an example. Now tell me what right Jesus would have had to require our followership if he didn't lay his life down and put us first before his 'need'. EVEN God in all his powerful splendor wouldn't tamper with our free will yet he can if he wants to but wouldn't because he doesn't need to. It is counter productive. So I sometimes wonder the audacity of people when they demand what they have not earned. Please don't demand that people follow you,let your work draw 'your' followership.
4. Giving advice when you are hurting (and have not forgiven) from the subject matter of your advice is not wise. You will NEVER give it soundly. You risk damaging the next generation by half truths. Please be silent. The best time is when you have healed and can fully appreciate perspective from the eagle's eye.
5. Never think of anyone as a nonentity. You insult the creator.
6. You are Not indispensable but you are indispensable. Having an exaggerated opinion about yourself is dangerous.
7. You can never know the heart of a woman until she reveals it to you..when she does don't underestimate the power she has given to you. What you think you have unraveled about her is what she permits you to see because the truth is that it takes God to unravel her. Even she doesn't know ALL of what she is capable of. And so when she is scorned (DEFINITION: to show that you think she is not worthy of respect or approval, to refuse or reject her that you do not think she is worthy of respect or approval) Hmmmm. She is dangerous. God will have to save her from herself and she must be willing to be saved. And when she is restored ...WOW! How even more (to herself first) appealing and powerful she is but sadly You may never see/know her heart again.
8. Everything is tested by time.
9. While I can not stand dullness I must understand the fact that everyone has a God given right to BE and not TO BE.
10. I admire accountability and integrity in a woman or a man. I admire confidence in same too. What I truly admire also is openness and honesty. So ask me the kind of men and women I prefer around me ?people who are confident in themselves and are not afraid to be open and honest, they position themselves to be accountable for wrongs/mistakes made because they are men and women of integrity and require the same from me as a sign of friendship and respect.
It all makes sense to me.....
Be Inspired
xoxo
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